Important to talk about dying, death and bereavement
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End of life
Lack of understanding about what it means to be ill or care for someone who is dying means that too many of us struggle to cope when faced with life’s inevitable challenges.
Many people have specific wishes about how and where they would like to die, and what they would like to happen after their death.
Sometimes they don’t like to talk about these wishes, perhaps due to fear of the subject or fear that they may upset family or friends.
If they don’t have these types of conversations it can mean that these wishes don't happen and families may struggle to make decisions.
There may be important matters that need dealt with now, rather than when time feels limited.
Open and honest discussion about death and dying can make sure that someone's wishes for end of life are known and respected. It can support those you love through bereavement.
Simple steps
There are simple steps to make the end of life experience better:
- get your financial affairs in order, including making a will
- check with your employer and previous employers about pension arrangements
- share your funeral plans
- plan your future care and support
- register as an organ donor and let those close to you know your decision
- tell your loved ones
There is further useful information in this section:
Talking about death does not bring it any closer.