What do you know about drugs? Research shows that children who feel they can talk to their parents about drugs will put off, or avoid, taking them more than those who do not.
There are risks and your child may not have thought of all of them. When you calmly talk through the situation with your child, you could mention these points:
Amphetamines (speed), cannabis, ecstasy, LSD and magic mushrooms can sometimes make the user feel tense and panicky.
If this happens:
Heroin, tranquillisers and misuse of gases, glues and aerosols can make the user feel very drowsy.
If this happens:
If a young child brings up the subject, ask gently what they know about 'drugs'. Tell them they can come to you whenever they have questions about drugs and you will answer. Tell them to let you know if anyone ever offers them drugs.
When they reach secondary school, what your child's friends think, do and say, becomes more important to them. Don't try to be 'cool' when you discuss drugs with them. This is a quick way to lose their trust.
Several national organisations can provide help and information on drugs and drug abuse:
National Drugs Helpline offers free and confidential advice. It is available in 120 different languages and a translator can be provided. The number is - 0800 77 66 00.
The Talk to Frank website has masses of information on how to deal with drugs and can refer you to local drugs services.
Release provides a helpline on drug use and legal issues Monday to Friday 10:00 am to 5:30 pm. Telephone 020 7729 9904.
Drugsalcohol.info is a Public Health Agency for Northern Ireland website in support of the Northern Ireland Drugs and Alcohol Campaign. It provides a searchable database with contact information.
Your GP can refer you to local drugs counselling agencies. Your child’s school should have a policy on drug education and managing drug-related incidents. The Community Liaison Department of your local police may be able to answer your questions about the local drug scene, and the law.